“Man up.” “Work harder.” “Stop crying.” All common messages men grew up hearing – and internalizing – over time. In this article, we dive into the reasons why “tough love” can make it harder to process loss, harming boys and men alike. Whether you’re here to process your own grief, or here to support a friend, brother, father, or partner, we explain how “tough love” may be blocking men from processing loss from their lives.

Vulnerability is one of those words that gets used a lot in therapy, on social media, in dating conversations, yet so few people feel confident they’re actually doing it. Many of my clients come into therapy saying, “I’m very vulnerable,” until we slow down and look at what vulnerability truly involves. What often emerges is a quiet realization: being open, self-aware, or expressive isn’t the same as being emotionally vulnerable. So let’s break it down, simply, honestly, and

Values aren’t just abstract ideas—we live them. They shape how we spend our time, relate to others, and make sense of the world. They’re personal beliefs that quietly guide us toward what feels right, meaningful, or fulfilling. When we clarify our values, we gain direction. Life becomes more grounded and aligned with what really matters. Read on to begin to clarify your values and how to live in tune!